She’s Working, She’s Traveling, Get Over It.
- Chesney Green

- Nov 25, 2025
- 2 min read
You Need A Passport, Not A Sugar Daddy!

You’ve seen her—a beautiful woman, another stamp on the passport, living her best life traveling to amazing places. Another table set with what everyone’s posting, insane cultures, and experiences alike; If your first thought is “wow, this looks so fun,” you are probably normal and happy on the inside. If it’s “she’s in debt” or “someone’s funding her life,” you’re telling on yourself. When in reality, the person in question is a totally normal working girl spending her time and money the way she pleases. And I have to be the one to say it, this narrative is so tired and subscribing to it only makes you sound like a hater.
We all know by now that women build careers, grow wealth, and buy plane tickets—that’s it. That’s the post. Policing that reality says more about insecurity than insight. Is it jealousy? Insecure projections? Or just the comfort of a small box? Traveling is not a loophole; its just a choice. Almost anybody can do it.
Just being real, I am here to tell you not to fall for the hype. Especially when it comes to people simply living their lives and unafraid to step outside of the box. Plan with intention, make the money moves, and take the trip. There is never a perfect time to go see the world. When it comes down to it, the process can be overwhelming and stressful, but that’s not to say it’s not worth it. Feline Shores is my newest creative outlet putting it all on the floor-sharing what it takes to be someone who travels, and travels well. This travel and lifestyle blog based in NYC will be the start of something new keeping you booked, busy, and boarding flights all year long!




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